INTERVIEW WITH DR. DAVID LEWIS
OCTOBER 8, 1998
DL: We are in Chalfont, Pennsylvania, on October 8, 1998, the 108th anniversary of Eddie Rickenbacker's birth. We are interviewing Marcie Rickenbacker who is going to give us some information about how Rickenbacker's remains were brought to the United States on an Eastern Airlines jet.
MR: I
had just returned about, I think, the day before, I think it was about
July 18 or 19 or so from a trip to Europe and I was woken by, a phone call,
it was early about 5:00 in the morning our time and it was somebody calling
from Switzerland saying Grandfather was very ill and they needed to talk
to my father. I'm
not able to recall who it was who called whether it was Sheppy or whether
it was the help-aid who had accompanied Grandmother and Grandfather and
Sheppy on this trip. So, I can remember
getting my dad and I think that day he left or the next day he left to
go over to Switzerland. It think
it was really fairly soon. It might
have been a little later than the 19th because Grandfather died
on the 23rd.So what happened. Farr
had said in his book that my dad talked to Grandfather from the airport
and that's
what I remember being told was that Dad called as soon as he got into the
airport in Zurich and his dad was aware of it was and always referred to
him as Pal and knew who he was but by the time my dad go to the hospital
he had slipped into a coma. The doctors
also felt that Grandmother was dying of cancer. She,
I think, had pleurisy. I don't
think she had cancer. But the Swiss
doctors kept saying, well, she had the cancer mask, this power, and they
gave her no more than about three months to live. And she was coughing a lot and she probably is the one who gave the cold and
whatever to Grandfather because she was coming down with this before they left. So, what I understood was that
Eastern sent the jet over and that it was staffed by Swiss air personnel. I could be wrong on
this. I also was
told that normally it would have taken about a week to get permission to
have a body released to be cremated and so there probably was some kind
of intervention to help speed up the process so that everybody wouldn't
have to stay over there so long, especially considering Grandmother's health. The thought was to hurry
up and get her back to Florida as soon as possible. It could be that Ed Garnell--it probably is true that Ed Garnell was on that
flight, that he went over with the plane because out of all the Eastern
people I think at that time he...I
don't
know if he was still the manager of the Miami station or not. But he and Jane lived right near Grandmother and they spent many, many Sundays
over with Grandmother doing New York Times crossword puzzles and
stuff like that. They were practically
on call all the time. So, what I
was told was that the jet when it left the airport it was pouring rain
and that there was a Swiss official who was to salute the jet when it took off. Somehow
there was some delay and the official was standing there in the pouring rain waiting to salute the
plane and also that the airport in Zurich was closed and that was the only
plane that was sent out as a tribute to Grandfather. Then
it started back to the United States. Now,
I told you previously that my mother's
mother had had a stroke so once Grandfather was ill my mother, my sister
and I had planned to go to up-state New York to Utica to go visit my grandmother
in the nursing home or hospital. I think she was in the nursing home at that point. So
we were up in Utica at the time that Grandfather actually died and so my
mother had to hurry up and get, or maybe, I think that's
where we were or else we left the day that he died and went up to go visit
my grandmother. So when we heard
that everything was arranged and the jet was going to be coming back then
I had to drive my mother from Utica to Syracuse to the airport to pick
up a flight there down to Miami so she could be there when the jet arrived. She said that when she got down to Miami she was with Floyd Hall and they were
in some kind of room where you could track jets or whatever and she said
she could remember that Floyd said all the jets that were coming down the
coast of Virginia doing this and so on whatever, you know, giving her some
idea of how much longer it was going to be before the plane arrived. So it probably is true that Grandmother didn't
want the ashes brought out right at that point and what I had always heard
was that there was this honor guard of Eastern personnel and that when
the plane landed then the Miami airport supposedly was closed and no other
flights came in and out except for that one. So my mother was there when the jet
arrived. So the people on the jet were my dad and probably Ed Garnell and Sheppy and
Grandmother and the help-aid, I don't
know who he was, he was a young guy somewhere in his thirties, I think,
and he used to have the day shift after Grandfather had come back from
Mercy Hospital. He had the seven
to seven shift or something like that and then there was another young
guy who had the overnight shift who would be available to help Grandfather
get to the bathroom or whatever and during the day the aid would drive
him off on little jaunts during the day and stuff like that. So when they went to Europe they wanted to have this extra help and my mother
kept referring to him as the keeper. She said it was like the lame, the _____, and the blind or whatever, you know,
all these eighty some odd year old Sheppy, and eighty some odd year old
Grandmother, eighty-three-year-old Grandfather, and they are going off
to Switzerland and he was the only one who had all his faculties. Anyway he was there and
then my dad, and
my mother said despite my grandmother's
illness and her blindness, she couldn't see very well, but she looked at my mother and said Oh,
I see you are wearing that dress I bought for you. " She could see the pattern of the dress well enough that she knew what she was
wearing. So they went back to the
villa and I don't know at what point Bill came in with Sandy. Sandy is someone that you should interview and Bill's
third wife, Gay. You really should
get in touch with her. She's got all her marbles, really. So they all went and got together in the villa and they wanted to get Grandmother
to bed and Bill went off for a walk on the beach and came back and announced
to everybody that he was going to be married to the love of his life by
the end of the year, Carole, the dingbat helicopter or whatever who's "bing
bong,"
Lady Bing, do you remember--do you know anything about her?
DL: Yes,
we've
heard of her.
MR: Well,
anyway...So, then my mother wanted
me to call after I drove back from Utica and I had a car accident on the
way back and the right fender of my car hit a tractor trailer and rebounded
and almost hit a guard rail. We were okay and we could drive the car but my mother wanted to find out how
I was so when I got home I had to tell her that I had this accident. Then Grandmother insisted on getting out of bed in the middle of the night and
she didn't
have enough strength and she got up and she fell and hit her head on the
bed and it started bleeding. She had to go to the bathroom so my mother said, Adelaide,
don't
get up. If you need any help I will
come get you." Anyway,
I think she tried to get up again and they finally got her to the bathroom,
got her back in bed and my mother said "I'm
going to sit up all night and I will be right here and I am going to sit
in this chair in the adjoining room and if you need anything I'll
be right there." My mother said it was the worst night of her life. She kept thinking about me having my accident, and Grandfather having just
died, and Bill dropping this little bomb shell that he was going to porce
Sandy, and Grandmother having fallen and cracked her head and supposedly
she was going to die in two or three months. DL: Aside
from that everything was fine? MR: So,
she said it was a stiff chair and she just sat there like this all night
just thinking I
don't
believe this night of my life. ??Other
than that everything was great? MR: Oh, yes! Everybody wanted to kill Bill
for his timing. So, anyway... DL: May
I ask at this point one of the books about Rickenbacker and I can MR: I
don DL: Back
to his ancestral home. MR: Yeah. Now,
I don't
know if it was actually to go back there but he and Grandmother had traveled
a lot and I don't
know if it was let's
go back to see where my parents came from. I don't
know if that was actually...My mother
would better be able to tell you what the reasons behind the visit were. But we couldn't believe it when they said they were going to go because here he had this
sought of stroke like episode in October and then made this miraculous
recovery and I'd
gone down to visit him--Grandmother and Grandfather that following March. I think he must have just gotten out of the hospital a couple of months before. DL: Now
you said Mercy Hospital. MR: Yes,
Mercy Hospital. DL:I n
Miami? MR: Yes. And
that's
what Farr says and that's true. Now, Farrest says something
about him being moved to a nursing home and I don't remember that and my mother said that is a log of bologna. I remember being told that he stayed the longest of anybody in the intensive
care at Mercy Hospital. He was in
there for almost two months and couldn't
get that and managed care these days. But anyway, and he came out and the gruffness had been sort of taken out of
him. He would get frustrated if you
asked about something that had happened maybe five months before. His short-term memory was not very good at that
point. His long-term memory was fine but he would get a little agitated if you asked
him about something that happened five or six months before. DL: It
wasn
MR: No,
it wasn't a stroke. DL: Could
you go into whatever length you can about just what it was that Eddie suffered? If
it wasn
MR: It
was the membrane in the back of the brain where your excess fluid is supposed
to drain through had somehow that whole mechanism had just stopped working. So
the fluid built up in the brain which is hydrocephalus, so it caused this
major episode and when I read what Farr said about it, its
a bunch of bologna because I read it to my mom and she said that's
not how it happened at all. And he made it sound like Grandmother and Grandfather had moved down together
to be in Key Biscayne and that's not true at all. I mean he was going
to stay in New York and he was going to move down to Florida and the only
reason he was down in Florida was to celebrate his birthday. And they didn't have a big party for the 50th anniversary. That's a lot of bologna too. There
was no party. They wouldn't
have one and he made it sound like it was down in Florida. They were still in New York before and that was September 22.
DL: Can
you clarify that? Were they living
in Key Biscayne or were they living in New York City or...? MR: What
had happened is and it probably had started happening sometime that summer
or later. But Grandmother, I think,
came to the decision that New York was not the place for her and they had
an apartment in the Dorsett Hotel and Mom said they were in the penthouse. Many of her friends had died and she wasn't
able to play her cards any more, canasta. She loved to play canasta and she loved to get together with her
friends. She was very concerned about not being able to see and she couldn't
walk along the street very well. So they sort of came to an understanding that they were going to
separate." I don't
like New York. It's not the life for me. My friends have
died and I can't
take it any more. You like New York,
it gives you, you know, you get good vibrations from it. Fine. You stay here and
I'm going down to Florida." So she moved down to Florida. She and
Grandfather had rented a villa at Key Biscayne for many years and I think
they got a little bit of a bigger one and she got the management to allow
her to furnish it with her own furniture. So at that time, probably sometime in September, something like that, they
broke up the apartment and Eddie got a smaller, more like an efficiency
kind of apartment, not in the penthouse.
DL: Were
they still at the Dorsett? MR: Yes,
still at the Dorsett. Some things
went into storage and some things came back to our house and I don't
know if...he must have still had his--I think he still had his office and that's where all of his file cabinets--like there were like four or five file
cabinets, big, tall file cabinets and all the photographs and stuff like that. She
got her stuff moved into
a villa down at Key Biscayne and they were in New York still when their
anniversary came around and my mother said that she and my dad and Bill
and Sandy wanted to have a party for them, a big celebration and Grandmother
said no, no, no, she didn't
want a big party. So they had a very
quiet celebration.
DL: This
was in Florida? MR: No,
this was in New York. They were
still together in New York. They stayed together until, I guess, just after
the anniversary and so they had a very quiet dinner and it was just Bill
and Sandy, and my mom and dad, and Grandmother and Grandfather. I think Mom said it was in the apartment and they had the woman who used
to do the cooking, she came in and prepared a meal for them, a nice special
meal and my mom said that she and dad, and probably Bill and Sandy paid
for the meal, and for the maid and everything to cook it and stuff. Grandmother apparently insisted on not having a big celebration. Farr makes it sound
like they had this big to do in Florida which is not true. They were in New York. Then
after that
Grandmother went down to Florida. That was September 22.So then his birthday
was October 8, so he came down to Florida just to be with her to celebrate
his birthday. It was just going
to be for a short visit and then he was going to go back up to New York
to his little apartment up there. Now what Farr says is that he had this stroke in front of Grandmother and Nedra
and Mom said that's not exactly the way it happened. She said, first of all it
wasn't a stroke. She said that he was watching
the world series and they had noticed apparently before that that he had
started to not speak clearly or something like that in the days before that. She
said that apparently Grandfather
just stood up and just started talking gibberish and he was trying to tell
them what he had just seen on the television when he was watching the world
series about some play and he says October 12 which would make sense because
the world series was probably still going on at that point. So,
and then I don't
know if he just dropped in front of them and whatever. Then he got taken to Mercy and he was in Mercy for--I was under the impression
that he was there for a long time and at some time shortly after he got
there they realized that it was this hydrocephalus and that's
when they put in the shunt to help drain off the excess fluid. Then he came back to the villa and in between the hotel apartment got closed
up and boy, that stuff came back to our house because more of it went into
storage or whatever and when he came back to the villa is when he started
having the round-the-clock aids.
DL Now
when you say the villa this was Adelaide's
quarters at Key Biscayne?
MR: Yes. And
the way the villa was set up it had--you came in foyer and there was sort
of an area set aside not on the ocean side but on the back side and it
was a bedroom area there. It had
like an accordion kind of privacy kind of thing and that's where Nedra would stay sometimes when Grandmother... DL: Now
tell us more about Nedra. MR: Nedra was--she's
still alive. She's out in California. You've got to get her address from my mother. She
probably is in her late seventies, I think. She is the daughter of Grandmother's
sister and from what I remember being told her mother died when she was
very young and her father was very harsh to her and made her do the household
work when she was very young. DL: So
she was Adelaide's niece?
MR Niece, yes. So, then she came to live with
Grandmother. DL: In
Florida? MR: No. Way
back when she was young. Grandmother sort of rescued her from this awful situation and then I got the impression
that she was sort of raised by Grandmother, that it was just this not this
very good situation because her mother died, I think she was an only child. My
mom could probably clear that up better than I can. DL: Okay. MR: She
pretty much, I think, came to live with my Grandmother and Grandfather. My dad, if he was alive, I think he would be
seventy-three. Nedra
was maybe three or four years older than my father or something like that. DL: Okay. How
long did she live with your grandfather and grandmother? MR: I'm
not sure but she was always very, very close to Grandmother and she married
a man by the name of Herbert Swayze. She
settled in Florida and she married a man by the name of Herbert Swayze
and had two girls, Vicky and Sandy. This
was back in 1949 or something like that. He was driving a baby sitter back home on a Saturday night and was killed
by a drunk driver and left Nedra with these two little girls. Nedra
worked, I think, for Eastern Airlines and she lived in Miami for many,
many years. Now, Mom said she is
out in California near one of her daughters.
DL: We'll
get her address. MR: But
yet she sends Christmas cards to my mom but she never includes a note or anything. My
mother has heard in
years past more from either Vicky or Sandy about what's
going on but Mom hasn't gotten anything from Nedra in terms of what Nedra is doing, what her life
is like, she just sends a card with her name and that's it. But Mom and Dad were never on
any bad terms and with Nedra so I don't know what the story is there.
Grandfather,
really, as I said earlier, he sort of lost his gruffness and his episode
in being in the hospital in '72
really scared me a bit and I wanted to go down and visit over my spring break. I
was at Boston University
at the time. I was a sophomore. So,
I called up the Yarnells who lived not far from Grandmother and I asked
Jane if I could come and visit and stay with them because I wanted to come
down and see Grandmother and Grandfather because my feeling was if the
episode happened then who knows how much longer he was going to have because
at that point he was eighty-two. So
I had it all arranged that--and I got my flight and was going to be coming
down and I was just going to bop in when it was convenient for Grandmother
and Grandfather and I visit them. So I called up Grandmother and explained to her what I wanted to do and she
got all upset. "Oh,
this is terrible. This is an imposition. You
know, you can't
stay with Jane, blah, blah, blah, blah. She
was just going on and on and on. I thought, Oh,"
because she--I think she still thought of me as being a little kid and
that I would need to be entertained and I was almost twenty at that point. I used to joke because she would refer to Mom and Dad as the children are
coming over or we are going together with the children for dinner and I
would think, "God,
what are we, embryos? I mean if she
called us the children she must have thought we were pre-existent or something. So,
I think she just had it in her mind that, oh, she was going to have to
entertain me, she was going to have to be bright and sparkly or something
and all I wanted to do was just sort of slip into their life for a couple
of days and I was going to come down on a Tuesday and leave on Thursday. I mean I was barely going to be
there. And I tried to explain to her that I was not going to get in their way or
anything. Well,
then she said, "Oh,
you just can't
stay with Jane, that's just an imposition. You have to stay
here. " This
was what I was trying to avoid. But she said Oh,
you have to stay. So
I said "Okay, Grandmother." So I flew down and I had my reservations going down and coming back and I
think that it turned out to not be as bad as she thought it was going to
be because after the first night she asked me to stay longer.
DL: Now,
Eddie was out of the hospital by this time.
MR: Yes,
he was home and had been home. This was March. This was like March 10-13
or something like that and he had been out of the hospital for maybe since
January or something like that. And I don't
think he ever went to any nursing home. Mom said "What?" No,
he never went to any nursing home,
which is what Farr wrote in his book. He came home and the villa and two bedrooms upstairs and Grandmother's
was the one that faced on the ocean and Grandfather's
was the back one. There was a little
dining area and then a small kitchen and there was a full bathroom downstairs--I
guess two full bathrooms upstairs. So he had his own bedroom in the back and his bureau from his apartment was
there, his beds and things that were familiar, all the furnishings were
furnishings from their apartment. His routine was to get up and to go with his attendant and to go up to the
hotel restaurant and have his breakfast over there and I think Grandmother
maybe slept a little later. He pretty
much had a bunch of cronies that he would chit chat with over there. Then he would come back and I think that he enjoyed going for drives and Grandmother
had a Cadillac so the attendant would drive Grandfather and there was an
orchard that was down south of Miami and that was one of the little day trips. They
would go across the
crossway and...
DL: Is
that what is now the Rickenbacker...
MR It
has always been.
DL: Okay. MR: Yes. I've
got a story to tell about that. So then they would go down maybe to this orchard and by some fruit and then
they--just something to do and then they came back. I went on one these drives with
them. Apparently they'd go on drives an awful lot and every time they would go through the crossway
they'd
have to pay the toll and Grandfather just got really annoyed that he had
to pay this toll on the crossway that was named for him. So he kicked up a fuss and I don't
know if he was given a toll plate so that he wouldn't have to pay the toll but that was pretty much what the routine was. I
don't know if he took his lunch over in the hotel dining room as well but he
and Grandmother would have dinner together and the Yarnells would come
over and Nedra would come over. The little accordion kind of bedroom area that was on the first floor that
was in the back that's
where I stayed when I was there and that would normally be where Nedra
would spend maybe three nights out of the week just to be...
DL: How
long were you there all total? MR: I
was probably there for about four days instead of just two. DL: Okay. MR: But
it was just so funny the way she kicked up such a fuss about me coming
and acting as if she was going to have to entertain me and that it was
going to be such an inconvenience for me to stay with Jane and then for
me to stay there. She was talking
about some dish and I said, Oh,
my mother makes that." It turns out the rendition, the version that my mother made is so entirely
different from hers so she said, "Oh,
well, if you know how to make do you want to make it?" So I made it for dinner and she let me know that this is not what she was
used to. She still had her vinegar
about her. Grandfather had really
mellowed out an awful lot and he was very funny when I went to breakfast
in the hotel dining room with him showing off his granddaughter and very
proud that I was there visiting. DL: He
had lost his rough edges by that time? MR: Yes,
he would get agitated if somebody him, as I said earlier, if somebody asked
about something that had happened a little while before that. That was probably the most time I ever spent with them because when I was a
child and they would come out from New York for Sunday dinner we'd
have to get all dressed up and look nice, and Mother would say Grandmother
and Grandfather are coming for dinner and they would arrive around 3:00
or 3:30 or something and they would come out in a [ ________ limousine]. In the beginning the limousine would just sit outside and Mother after a while
said Why
don't
we drive you back instead of having ______ driver sit there for hours waiting
until you finish. So as children
we would come out and we'd
greet them and we would say hello and then we would march back down to the basement and hang out down in our finished basement and watch
TV. But it meant that we couldn't
have our friends come over and I think some of our friends did meet Grandmother
and Grandfather. DL: Now
where were you living at the time? MR: In
Montclair. ...after Grandfather died her world had really pretty much gotten microscopic. It
was very small and
Nedra was there three or four nights a week. She had her own house in Miami. DL: Nedra
did? MR: Nedra,
yes, but she was spending many nights in the villa with Grandmother. Of course, there wasn't
an attendant there so Nedra was acting more like an attendant. There was a cook or a maid or somebody who would come in during the day and prepare
meals. The Yarnells were wonderful,
loyal, devoted friends and spent many hours over at the villa. ??:There
was or was not an attendant? MR: There
was not, no. Grandmothers
health other than her eyesight really wasn't too bad in the years after Grandfather died. You
know, it was four years or whatever. I didn't--oh
yeah, we did go down to see her. She wasn't
feeling well enough and up to coming to our wedding which was in '75,
May of '75,
and she called my mother about a month or two before we got married and
she asked, she said that she couldn't
come up to the wedding but that she would like us to come and visit her,
my husband and me. She said that
perhaps it was a selfish wish of an old woman but she wanted to be able
to meet my husband. So we flew down
the end of June in '75
and that was the last time that I saw her. We had a very nice visit. Nedra
was around most of the time. We stayed in a hotel room at the Key Biscayne Hotel. We
spent an awful lot of time with them. I think we were only there for a short time, maybe a weekend or something,
a long weekend. But she seemed in
pretty good shape. She loved to
do crossword puzzles, the New York Times crossword puzzles, and
my mother and my father always did them, and the Yarnells did them. The Yarnells would come over on Sunday and spend Sunday afternoon with Grandmother
and they would all do a crossword puzzle. My mother said it was amazing. Grandmother
couldn't
see and they would tell her what the clue for twenty-four across has got "a
blank blank letters,"
whatever and they would tell her what letters there were and what the clue was and she would be able to keep the whole
puzzle in her head. My mother and
father used to talk to her on the weekends, on Sundays, and my grandmother
would say I can't
get such and such on, you know, its
a real stinker this week, and they would have conversations about the puzzle
and this was something that she couldn't even see. The day that she shot herself
it was a Sunday and it was just a typical Sunday. The Yarnells had come over, they worked the crossword puzzle, I think she might
have said she was feeling a little tired or something. A few days before, I don't
know if there had been any reported police activity or something but she
did say that she wanted to have her pistol, that she didn't feel safe. I don't
know if it was because if there had been a break in or some violence had
happened nearby. I can't remember. I think that there had
been something that she could use that as an excuse for why she wanted
to have her pistol. So this was a
premeditated thing. This was not
a spur of the moment kind of thing. So she said that she wanted to have it and Nedra gave it to
her. And I don't
know how many days before it was that she asked for it before she shot herself. So
the Yarnells left and
I don't know if it was before dinner or if it was after dinner, I think the routine
usually was that they would come in the afternoon and they would do the
puzzle, they would have dinner, and then they would leave, this kind of thing. So
she went upstairs and I
think the only person who was there was Nedra and Nedra heard a shot and
ran upstairs and she was about to go in Grandmothers
bedroom and I don't
know if she called out to her or what the story is and Grandmother said "I
missed, goddamn it, don't come in here or I'll
shoot you too." Nedra
went "whoa"
and she ran down stairs, I believe and called, I don't
know, the police or the hotel, notified somebody and then heard another shot. Grandmother
did not die. She was taken to the hospital and Bill got in on things and he wanted to go
and have every means possible, you know, hooked up to machines, all that
kind of stuff and Mom and Dad were absolute adamant. Grandmother had been appalled at what had happened with, I think, Truman, and how he
had been sick for so long and she felt that that was just horrible. So she had made a very strong living will saying that she was not to be resuscitated,
she was not to be put on life support, she was not to have any extraordinary
means and she had sent it to Dad and she had sent it to Bill. I don't
know how soon before but it was some time in the year or so before and
it was prompted by what had happened with Harry Truman. So,
here she was still alive and she got taken out of the hospital and Bill
started kicking up a fuss about...
DL: Did
Bill and your father come from wherever they were at the time? MR: I
think they did. Bill probably was
in Greenwich. By that time he was
married to Carol. I think they were
living in Greenwich because if he went into New York he was considered a
bigamist because his porce wasn't recognized there.
DL: So
at any rate your father was summoned or...? MR: They
were called and then Bill started calling the hospital saying stick her
on life support and then it was made known that he had this living well
and that she should just be... DL: So
your father was not on the scene? MR: No,
neither was Bill. ??:Where
did your father live at that time? MR: We
lived in Upper Montclair, New Jersey. ??:Oh,
you were still there? MR: Yes,
yes. No, no, wait a minute, I DL: How
long after that did Adelaide die? MR: Oh,
just--not long. I don't
think that--it was like it happened that evening and I think probably by
the end of that day she was dead. But Bill was trying to go and get all of this extraordinary measures taken
and so I think my father was able to point out to the doctors that's not what she wanted. DL:____
____ ____? MR: I
don't
know that she could have been saved. I mean she had a head wound. DL: Yes,
so she shot herself in the head? MR: Yes. Twice. DL: Twice. She
said she missed the first time but she meant by that that she did not inflict
a mortal...? MR: Yes. I
think it was just like a ______ or something. She was one heck of a spunky lady. I
don't
advocate suicide but when you look at the life that she lead and the fact
that she was at that point probably eighty-seven, she was probably somewhere
up in her nineties at that point. We think she was born about 1885, 1884, something like that, and this was 77.So
she really had lived a number of
lifetimes in those years. DL: So
as far as you know, her motive for committing suicide was simply that her
life had become barren or microscopic? MR: Yes. There
was not much more for her to live. She
had no friends... DL: It
wasn't
the sudden health problem...? MR: Well,
I don't know that her health was all that great, I mean, considering how old she was. When
we visited her in '75
I know that she still probably had a little bit of lung thing and her coughing,
a little bit, and stuff like that.
DL: But
this thing about her having a stroke or something like that does not...? MR: I
don't
know where Bill got that. You can
ask my mom about it. I mean some
of the things that I've
read that Bill said is like where did he come up this. DL: We're
asking about David Rickenbacker and whether Ms. Rickenbacker knows anything
about the circumstances under which he was adopted by Eddie and Adelaide? MR: I
don't
know anything more than I believe he was born in New York City. I
now that this was sometime in the '70s
when people started trying to find their natural parents and so on and
when Bill went out and tried to find who his biological parents were I
think my father's
feeling was that it was just ridiculous that Bill was doing this, that
it was not something that he ever, ever was interested in, never expressed
the slightest hint of curiosity as to who his biological parents were. For all his concerns his parents were Eddie and Adelaide and he never went
out of his way, never did anything to find out who they were.
DL: To
the best of your knowledge he was born in New York City? MR: I
believe so. I didn't
even know that he was adopted until, I cant
even remember, I probably was about twelve or thirteen and I don't
know what brought it out but my mother somehow said something about "Oh,
well, your father is adopted,
and I think I probably found out about that time that Grandmother had been married before as well because that's
why Grandmother and Grandfather adopted because Grandmother wasn't able to have children. She
had a
hysterectomy when she was married to Clifford. So I was just amazed that he was adopted because I had never...
DL: He
had never discussed this? MR: No,
he had never, ever, ever said anything about it. I don't think I ever said anything to him about it
either. It wasn't as if it was something he was ashamed of, you know, like some big dark
family secret or something, but as far as he was concerned his parents
were Adelaide and Eddie and that was that. He went with them as an infant and never looked back and I think he thought
Bill was just very foolish to go and spend the time and the money that
he spent because I think he felt what was the point. DL: So
you would have no knowledge of how old your father was when he they adopted
him? MR: I
believe he was an infant, really newborn. My mother has some really neat photograph albums and they have pictures (we
were just looking through them at the end of June) and they have pictures
of him just practically newborn or something and they are dated and it
says David and the date, and stuff like that, and Grandmother put them together. Apparently
it was a big
thing back in those days to get a professional photographer to come in
all the time and people exchanged photographs of their children with their friends. It
just really surprises me. But there are just tons of photographs
following his progress as he got older so I think that he was an infant,
fairly soon after he was born. I have no idea who his parents were, his biological parents and he never
wanted to know, and my mother, I know, will tell you the same thing. DL: Now
switching forward a considerable number of years did you live at the ranch
in Texas? MR: I
was born in Texas. DL: You
were born in Texas at the ranch? MR: Yes. I
was born in [Kerrville], Texas, which is the nearest big town near Hunt, Texas. At
the time I guess my parents
had moved down to Texas in '51.Dad
graduated from Hamilton College. DL: I
taught there, incidentally. MR: Oh! He
loved Hamilton. He had joined the Marines. Apparently he went off--I
think it was March of '43
that's
when he would have been eighteen, and my mom said that Adelaide signed
the papers or something thinking that he would be rejected because he was
about 125 pounds sopping wet, this skinny, scrawny, oh, he was very skinny,
very skinny, and she thought, Grandmother thought "Oh,
they won't
take him. "And she was just astounded when he called and said... DL: I'm
a Marine. MR: Yes,
I'm
a Marine. He was, I think at Admiral
_____ Academy in Toms River, New Jersey, which I don't think is in existence any more, and he might have been only maybe a junior
or something. He had bounced around
from a whole bunch of different schools. He had gone maybe from the age of eight onward gone from one boarding school
after another. I think he might have
had--he was a lefty--and I think he might have also had a dyslexia kind
of problem or something.
DL: I
had heard that. MR: He
was not a good student. It was very
hard for him to write. It took a
lot of effort for him to write but he was a bright guy. So I think that he just had what they say these days some kind of learning
process problem. ??:____
_____ auditory? MR: I
don't
think it was auditory because he went to Arizona for Boys and then he went
to Asheville, he went to Admiral _____, probably there were others, Brownsville
Country Day or something when they lived up in Brownsville and that would
have been in the '30s,
somewhere in the 30s
I think they lived in Brownsville. So he, I think, was at Admiral _____ and I
don't
think he was a senior, because when he came back from the war he went to
Worcester Academy in Worcester, Mass., and was a graduate of the class
of 1947.So he would have gone in
their and maybe done like a year, a year and a half, or something like
that.
DL: And
then he went from there to Hamilton? MR: Yes
and so he was the class of '51
at Hamilton. He met my mother in
October of his sophomore year, '48,
I guess that would be. One of his
fraternity brothers was married to a very good friend of my mother's
and my mother had gone over to Herb and Betsy Hanson's house for dinner and it was a Friday night and they said, "Do
you want to see if I can get one of my fraternity brothers to come over
and we can play bridge?"
DL: Your
mother was in college? MR: No,
my mother was living in Utica at home. She had gone to college. She went to
Abbott Academy in Andover, Massachusetts, which merged in '72
with Andover. So, anyway, she had
graduated from there and had worked for the phone company and worked at
a couple of other things. She was
living at home and she was--I don't
know what she was working at at the time--but she was at the Hanson's
for dinner so the fraternity brother that Herb Hanson got to come over
was my dad and that was in October. So they got to be, I don't know, dated or whatever and I think my dad first asked my mom to marry
him in January right after she had been in a car accident. She had two black eyes and a broken nose and he had come up on his birthday
from New York and his birthday is January 4, so he was always having to
leave to go to school. He had been
going off to boarding school from the time he was probably eight, so he
was never with family or anybody and he had called from the apartment on
Eastern Avenue, 130 Eastern Avenue, called to see what my mother was doing
and she had been in a car accident so she was home after the car accident
and she said "Do
you want to come up and we'll
fix you a birthday dinner? "He came up on the train up to Utica and my mother's
mother fixed him a birthday dinner and a cake. As I remember the story, he asked her to marry him then and she _____ Are
you out of your mind? He didn't take no and he asked her a couple more times and their engagement was announced
in March and they got married in July.
DL: Of
19--? MR: Of
1949. DL: '49? MR: July
2, '49,
so it was in between his sophomore and junior years. So he moved out of, I guess, the
fraternity. He was doing an awful lot of jobs. His father only gave him a very small allowance. DL: That
would fit. MR: Huh? DL: That
would fit. That would be characteristic. MR: Yes,
and when he got married he said just because you're
getting married doesn't mean I'm
going to up your allowance. Meanwhile,
Grandfather wasn't paying for dad's
education because he was going on the GI Bill and he was only giving him
something like, I don't
know, a hundred bucks a month or fifty bucks a month--some really insignificant
amount and Dad was working two jobs. He would go around to all the dorms and stuff and pick up dry cleaning and
he delivered dry cleaning and he'd sell peanuts and stuff at the hockey games. And
he did all kinds of things like that and then my mom had a couple of jobs. They were living in what they called the "tar
paper shack"
and it was Vet Village. It was down
the road... DL: Down
the hill. MR: ...beyond
some of the fraternities. DL: I've
been there. MR: It
was raised up and, oh God, I've seen pictures, its
just...
DL: I've
been there. MR: I
don't
think they are there any more. DL: No,
I would doubt it. MR: Yeah,
and Mother said the winter wind would just whistle underneath... DL: I
can believe. MR: ...and
come up through the floor boards and there would, you know, all these guys
who had gone to the war and they were older students and so, I think, I
don't
know if it was built originally for the vets or if it was built to house
people who had come to take classes during the war for training or something
like that. But it got turned into
Vet Village. Dad was real clever
and he was a tinkerer and they used to have a kerosene heater and it stunk
and the tank was right in the little house so he worked up some kind of
thing where the tank would be outside and it could be fed by a gravity
system so that he didn't have to have the tank inside and smell it. They
spent that Christmas with Grandmother and Grandfather on the houseboat
down in Marathon and apparently Mom got pregnant then and she found out,
I guess, it was...I think they called her, they called her--it was on some
significant day--I cant
remember what it was and Grandmothers
comment when she found out that she was going to be a grandmother was very
acid and sort of "Guess
you can't
fight mother nature, can you?,
and they didn't
here from her again until who knows how long. She was not at all happy with the idea and this would have been January of
1950, let's
say January or February, somewhere around in there. My brother as born at the end of September 1950.That
was my dads
senior year. So he had, I guess,
a major in political science and a minor in economics or something like
that, but his dad had bought the ranch down in Texas and I don't
know how it came about, my mom obviously is going to have a better tape
on that, how it came about that he and Bryan and my mom went down there
and he managed this ranch and Mom always just laughed they went from the
tar paper shack to the log cabin. The ranch house that they stayed in was a log cabin, modern
version. So that was in '51
and I was born in June of '52
and we lived there until--probably about March of '57.We
moved up to Montclair and my mother was pregnant with my sister. DL: What
was your father doing in Montclair? MR: He
got a job with United States Trust Company and I don't
know if it was sort of with some connections that he was able to get this job. I
think U.S. Trust was the trust
company that handled the pensions for Eastern or something like that or
if he was able because he was coming in. I don't
know if any strings were pulled, I don't know what the story is, but he was an investment advisor for accounts and
he had like the ______ family. He would have a few named family accounts or whatever and very quiet money.
DL: Was
it '57
that Eddie gave the ranch to the Boy Scouts? MR: Yes,
and that's what prompted the move. If it hadn't
been for him doing that then we would have still been down there. DL: From
what I understand Eddie expected that ranch to be a kind of paying proposition. Does
that jive with...? MR: Could
have been. DL: Stock raising? Was that the kind of...? MR: Well,
he had a chicken farm with caged layers and Dad would go over there and
I can remember him candling the eggs, I can remember him telling me that
eggs were always supposed to be pointed-end down, and that's
the way they are supposed to be put in the cartons. I can remember walking through that huge chicken house and the caged layers
and the eggs would run down or whatever. DL: Okay,
it was a poultry farm then primarily? MR: That
was a small part of it. They had
long-horn cattle when long-horn cattle wasn't
any big deal. Now people look at
them as, you know, something special but nobody wanted long-horn cattle. They had [Charlet] and they had Angus, they had beef cattle, and I think they
had either sheep or goats, I can't remember. And then there was a game
hunting section. Did you know about
that? DL: Well,
I knew that Eddie liked to have meetings of the board at the ranch and
that there would be hunting.
MR: But
this was run as business where there were brochures that talked about coming
to Rickenbacker Ranch in Hunt, Texas, and there was a price list, and if
you shot a gazelle it was so much or a ______ for so much, or whatever. So there was this section of the ranch, I don't
know if it was like an enclosed perimeter or something, because when you
came into the ranch--I might be exaggerating. It was 2,800 acres--2,600 hundred acres--small by Texas
standards. But there were a number of gates that you would go through as you came in and
so the gates were set up in different sections, keeping them separate from
each other. That was one of the duties
that Dad had was when people came down and I don't
know if they stayed in the main house or if they stayed some place else,
but Dad would take them around to the different blinds and, you know, be
their hunting guide and entertain them. They would be in the main house, I know, for cocktails and stuff like
that. That was something that--the kind of thing that a board would do or you would
try to get other people with money who could take the time to come and
do something like that. A macho kind
of thing. I mean a real 50s
kind of thing. DL: And
he raised and sold livestock? MR: ...Ernest
Hemingway kind of, I mean, just... DL: Yes. MR: I'm
trying to remember the names of all the different kinds of deer and they
were imported. I mean they were from
Africa, Asia. The original stock
was I think imported and then they just bred the stock. DL: The
ranch was partly to raise and sell animals, chickens, partly for hunting
expeditions? MR: Yes. Then
there was the beef cattle and then there were the long-horns ____ certain
more ornamental. When the ranch was
given to the Boy Scouts the long-horns were given to Charley (I think I'm
going to draw a blank on his name). He's
near Hunt and he was a temporary of my dad's
and he's
now got a big operation with long-horn cattle and stuff like that. DL: Is
it true that Adelaide did not like the ranch, that she was unhappy there? MR: I
don't
think she much liked it. I think
that when she did come down that she'd
end up spending a lot of time in San Antonio which was about ninety miles. DL: Eddie
and Adelaide simply visited the ranch from time to time. Your father and mother lived there? MR: Oh
yes, Mom and Dad lived there. DL: Eddie
and Adelaide would visit? MR: They'd
come down and they, you know, they'd
be together, I guess, and then Grandmother might go into San Antonio, about
ninety miles away, and she had friends there. Grandfather,
I think, thought it was pretty neat, there were cages that had exotic birds--peacocks,
and they wandered the grounds of the main house and all different kinds
of just... DL: So
they didn't really reside there but ____ _____ visited it? MR: She
kept some stuff there. I mean my
mother said she can remember getting phone calls from my Grandmother saying, ??: You
had to do it. MR: Of
course you are going to do this. This is Adelaide speaking. Anyway, you'd put them on the bus and send them to me in San Antonio, that kind of
thing. They really didn't live down there all that much and around that time too, I think maybe about
in '59
is when they got the house in Coral Gables. I think they sort of went from, I guess after having the ranch and giving
it to the Boy Scouts, then they got the house in Coral Gables. DL: Why
did Eddie want to give the ranch away? MR: I'm
not sure DL: Was
it not making money, was he tired of it? MR: There
was a drought the whole time that they were there for something like five,
seven years or something like that. It was, I think, making ranching not very profitable. I
don't know if maybe he wore out his interest
in it. The thing that I always had
heard could be just something really stupid that's not
true at all is that the reason he got the ranch in the first place is think
of the time and the Cold War starting up that he was convinced that the
Soviets were going to start a war and that the safest place in the United
States was going to be some place in the middle of the country. He wanted a safe haven in the middle of the country and the McCarthy hearings
were starting up and people were seeing communists under every rock. He admired Joe McCarthy. DL: I
know he did. MR: In
fact at one time he even said that somebody is going to erect a stature
in McCarthy's honor.
DL: Yeah,
I know that. MR: He
was very much by the book an American and "I
love this country and anybody who says anything wrong about it ought to
go back to Russia. Don't live here if you don't like it,"
that kind of thing. I don't
think he ever bought the ranch from Frederick because Frederick Air Conditioning
in the first place to have it be a money maker... DL: ...lady
being forever one time wife of Emperor ______ feels entitled dealing with
Carol Douglas who had been married to Bill Rickenbacker. This
says the Daily News so I presume it's
the New York Daily News, Sunday, September 7, 1997, page 30. ??: You
wanted a citation of this? Where
did you get this? MR: That
came from White Horse Studios. DL: I
know White Horse Studios and I... MR: And
that's
the same as this. DL: Oh,
okay. MR: It's
just that's
the version that they sent me. DL: This
is a tape called "Ace
of Aces, Eddie Rickenbacker in the First World War,"
recorded by White Horse Studios, 1634 Southwest Alder Street, Portland,
Oregon 97205, telephone: 503-222-0116, fax 503-222-3658.Also
www.whitehorsestudios.com. ??: You
were talking about Sandy? MR: Sandy,
yes, it is Alexandra Leys Rickenbacker. She
was someone whose family lived in Brownsville, the time that Dad and Uncle
Bill were living there. That would
have been in the 30s.I
think that they all were very good friends as children and Sandy also has
a brother named Dirk and he was a good enough friend of my friend of my
fathers
that when my parents got married in 49 Dirk was one of my fathers
grooms'
men which I didn't realize. I saw Dirk and Sandy at,
I guess it was Tommy's
wedding which was about--I'm
trying to think how long ago it was--maybe about eight years ago or something. DL: Now
who is Tommy? MR: The
younger of Bills
two boys. So there's
Jamie who probably was born in--he's
about nine months younger than Nancy, my sister and Nancy was born in May
of '57
so he might have been early January, February of 58
or something. Tommy, I think, is
two or three years younger than Jamie. Tommy and his wife live in Andover, Massachusetts, and Sandy and her mother,
Tony's wife's
mother, lives near them some place. After she and Bill divorced I think she continued to live in the house, Briar
Cliff Manor, for a while and her family had a house up in South Egremont,
Massachusetts. Egremont, that's
like E-G-R-E-M-O-N-T, anyway in the [Burk Shears], and she went up and
lived there for many years. I think
it was only in the last few years that she moved to Eastern Massachusetts
so she could be near Tommy and his wife. Tommy and his wife have two children, a little girl and a
boy. So Sandy is still alive. She had numerous
problems with mental breakdowns when she was married to Bill. You have to wonder if perhaps he sort pushed her to the limit, that he knew
what buttons to push. She went to
places, I think, like Silver Hill in Connecticut, in these fashionable
mental kind of places or whatever. I think she is a manic depressive or something like that because it took
a while for them to get her medication adjusted to the point where she
took it then she would be able to not be in a big funk. So she apparently is doing okay and has been independent for many
years. Then the second wife of Bill's
was this Carol Douglas. I'm not exactly sure how they met but Carols
then husband was in movies or productions or something like that and Bill
somehow met her and Carol and her husband who was considerably older than
she was at the time, he was probably in his sixties and Carol was in her
late twenties or thirties or something. So,
somehow Bill met her and she was over, I think, on the west coast of Florida,
the Naples area, something like that, and after Grandfather died then Bill
used to try to do things so that he could get Grandmother to meet Carol
and he told Grandmother one time that he had just the person for her to
have be an attendant to come in and help her and this person was a nurse,
and blah, blah, blah, and it was a bunch of blah, blah, blah, blah. He
was trying to get Carol to come in and get to meet Grandmother and ingratiate
herself because Grandmother had said she didn't
want to have anything to do with this woman who was going to be in Bill's life. She
really had gotten very
angry with Bill after that whole business with him. I think she felt that he inflicted a lot of mental pain on Sandy throughout
their marriage and that Sandy was getting the short end of the deal here. Bill had gone to the Dominican Republic and gotten a
divorce which was not recognized
in New York. DL: Like
Victor Newman. ??: Yes. MR: And
we laughed and said "Oh
gees, he's
going to stay out of New York because he could get arrested as a bigamist
in there." Then he married Carol and then they lived in an apartment in
Greenwich and he
asked Dad to be his best man and Dad _____ "uummm"
because he was Bills
best man for the first time and I think Dad was the best man the second
time but then when Bill divorced Carol and wanted to marry Ada Gay then
I think Dad said "No,"
he wasn't. The
first two times weren't any big help so I'm
not going to go and do it a third time, forget this. I don't know what the attraction was to
Carol. I don't
know, maybe he was trying to recapture his youth or something at that point,
but she has this spread, if you go into People magazine about 19--Im
trying to think of it, it was after Grandmother died, I think. No,
maybe it wasn't because she was at the Air Force rededication ceremony, Carol was. Carol
was wearing this bizarre hat and this pant outfit and I was like, "Oh
my God." Anyway,
Bill was trying to push her as a pilot or something and then he was going
to try to get her into helicopter training and this is when People
magazine heard about it and they did a little spread on Carol and they
have a quote there where she said something about "I
want to learn to fly like Daddy. You know, she never even had met Eddie and here she's
trying to take on like she had some kind of relationship with him. Well then at the Air Force or whoever it was--whatever group or the arm services
that she was supposedly going to try to get into helicopter training they
found out that she was too old and wasn't qualified anyway. So she just sort
of very quietly let die after that because I don't know when it was in People magazine, it was like "Oh,
you know, here's
this daughter-in-law of "Captain
Eddie"
was going to become a helicopter pilot and she was very delusional--I mean,
there was sometime that she was going to do something ____ _____ take the
helicopter and go rescue the Pope or something, I mean just really bizarre kind of. She
has all of her affairs
managed by her brother and sister. I mean she doesn't
have both ores in the water for sure. DL: Now
what about the third wife, Ada? MR: I
don't
know how Bill met Ada. She was introduced
to us as Ada and then sometimes as Gay. So we never knew what she was... ??: _____
her name was? DL: He
called her Gay. MR: Gay. Well,
her apparent given name was Ada. I
think that Mom said that "Gada
(that's
what Mother used to call her, Gada, Ada, Gay) her husband (first husband),
I think Mom said, was Bill's
roommate at Asheville, so somehow the acquaintance got renewed and I don't
know if her marriage was on the rocks or if she was already divorced, but
anyway they got married. They ended
up buying a house north of Boston (I'm
trying to remember [Botsford]) and right at about a few years before my parents moved up to Vermont and they bought this 1777 brick
house. I think my mother owned this spot like Bill had sort of now trying to sort
of take on what my father had done because he took on trying to restore
this house or return it to its earlier glory or something like that. I think by his investments he realized that Massachusetts was not the place
for him to be. People referred to
him as "Taxachusetts"
instead of Massachusetts so he realized he needed to get out of there and
then he moved up to Frances Town and bough the house up there. Off and on we saw him because when he was living in Botsford because we were
living in the Boston area at the time, my husband was in graduate school,
and sometimes--usually when one of the boys like Jamie or Tommy was somehow
in the picture or something, every now and then we would get a call. One time we went to the house in Botsford, one time we went to a Mexican restaurant
in Boston and had dinner with them and one of the boys or something. We didn't
see that much of them and I really didn't
want to see a whole lot of Bill anyway. My husband couldn't
tolerate him too much either. So they moved up to Frances Town and all along Gay was involved in horseback
riding and showing, ______ _____ and that kind of thing. DL: Yes,
we knew that. MR: The
story I heard was that she had decided that they should move down to Connecticut
or something like that and they supposedly had sold the house or leased
it or something like that, so Bill went down there and they were supposed
to be moving down here and so on. That he went to one party and decided he didn't
like the people there and said you can stay here I'm going back up to Frances Town and that's when Nancy showed up on the doorstep because she was the person who was
supposed to lease his house or buy it or something and it was "Oh,
well, you've
got the house and me too,"
kind of thing. So that's
how that relationship started and I don't know at what point he divorced Gay and then married Nancy.
??: The
story we got somewhere was that she was having an affair with a stable
boy. MR: Yeah. Did
Bill tell you that? DL: Yes. MR: I
had heard--I think Mother had said there had been some suspicion on Bill's
part that Gay was having an affair with somebody connected with the horses
or something. DL: That's
what we heard. MR: I
guess it was all the more obvious and maybe the attitudes of the people
in the area of Connecticut he just felt like this is not my kind of people,
I don't
want to have anything to do with them and he just turned tail and went
back up to New Hampshire. I think
they either sold the house or leased the house or something, but I mean
Nancy shows up with her older teenage son or something and it's
like... ??: With
the house? MR: You've
got the house but now you've
got me too. I mean that's bizarre. DL: I
want to ask you about several people, one being Sheppy Shepherd. Is she dead? MR: Oh,
yes. DL: How
long ago did she die? MR: I'm
trying to think. She probably died
sometime in the early '80s. Keep
in mind she was as old as Grandfather and her name was Marguerite and when
I read the information in Farr's
book about how she had come to be his secretary way back in the '20s
and stuff, she was very efficient. She was like a member of the family. I mean when we moved to New Jersey and Grandmother and Grandfather were in
New York in whatever hotel apartment they were living in then Sheppy wouldn't
come over all the time but there were times when she would be included. When my parents had their 25th wedding anniversary Sheppy came to
that. My father sent a car to New
York City and it picked her up in the Mexican whatever mariachi band that
came then to this French country inn in New Jersey. DL: Where
would be a logical place to look for an obituary? MR: She
was living in New York City at the time. She had moved down to--I could probably get you an old address
book. She was living at about 54th Street or something like that. Her
sister and her sisters
family were in Hamilton, Ontario. She was from Hamilton, Ontario. And I know that she used to go back there and visit with them and
stuff. So Id
say you probably... I don't know whether she died before my dad or not, probably because she would
have been even at eighty-one or something she would have been, you know,
eighty-one. DL: She
played an awfully important role in Eddie's
life as his...I just have a sense
that he leaned on her very hard. MR: Oh, incredibly. When we were growing
up we always got Christmas, no, birthday cards and Christmas checks and
the only reason we ever got a birthday card was because that was part of
Sheppy DL: No,
I MR: She
was just a really, really nice efficient lady. She was definitely a lady. DL: Who
had writing skills. MR: I
think so. I don't
know. DL: I
don't
want to put words in your mouth here but I suspect that one of the crucial
functions that Sheppy played for Eddie was that she could write. MR: You
are saying she probably wrote the letters for him? DL: Yes. I've
read literally thousands of letters by Eddie Rickenbacker and they all
have the same style and I have a hunch--I always have the feeling that
I am reading Sheppy Shepherd. MR: Probably. DL: Eddie
through Sheppy Shepherd. In other
words I don't have the sense that Eddie was a polished writer ever.
MR: Oh,
no. DL: And
whenever a book was written it had to be written by a ghost writer. In the first case by Lawrence
Driggs, Fighting the Flying Circus,
by ____ [Herndon] in the case of his autobiography, and I have always wondered
what role Sheppy may or may not have played in writing Seven Came Through. MR: I
don't
know what role she did but I don't
think any of those scrapbooks that you have would be in existence if it weren't for Sheppy. I mean that's
the kind of thing that Sheppy did. I think she just kept him organized and I think that after having worked
for so many years with him that she knew what he
_______ ______ she probably knew what he wanted to say so she just polished
it up because after all, he was a grade school drop out. He didn't
have the ability probably to put forth a really good written letter on
his on. DL: That While
Ms. Rickenbacker has gone for lunch she has an assortment for materials
dealing with Eddie, one of them being a copy of Time magazine, April
17, 1950, with Eddie on the cover and a feature article about Eddie. She
also has a copy of Time magazine. August 6, 1973, which contains
an article about Eddies death. A number of newspaper articles
relating to Eddies
death, especially the New York Times, Sunday, July 29, 1973. I
presumably have this at Auburn but I thought it would be better to read
this into the tape just in case I might have missed that Time magazine article. Also
an article from an
unidentified newspaper dealing with the change of the name of [Lockborne]
Air Force in Ohio to honor Eddie Rickenbacker after his death. A bill asking for the name change was introduced by Representative Sam Devine,
a Republican from Ohio. I don't know what newspaper that is from but I thought I would read that into the
record. Also an article "Rickenbacker's
Ashes Returned"
from an unidentified newspaper. The ashes of Captain Eddie Rickenbacker, America's
World War I flying ace were flown back to Miami, Wednesday, from Zurich,
Switzerland, accompanied by his eighty-two year old widow. DL: ...if
you want to add anything. Start out with Eddie. MR: Well,
I described to you earlier what the kind of interactions I had as a child
where it would be Sunday dinner, that kind of thing, and we really didn't
spend that much time with them except at the meal itself. Many times they would have gone on a trip, _____ trip, or a trip to the far
east or something like that, one of their many trips to Switzerland, or
to Italy. There might be things that
they had purchased when they were there that they would give to us when
they came to visit. It was a very
distant kind of relationship. He was not a warm grand fatherly type of person. My
mother told a story one time about how they came for Sunday dinner when
we living in our first house in Montclair and Grandfather went out in the
back yard and played catch with my brother who was probably only about
seven years old or something and Grandmother caught sight of him and called
him in and said "What
are you doing out there making a fool out of yourself?,
or something like that, and he never did anything like that again. She was a very dominant, domineering
person. She had very definite ideas about the way things should be. Oh,
she had an interaction with my mother when we were down in Texas and she
felt that it was inappropriate for me to have long hair. I
was probably about three or four. My
baby pictures show me with dark red hair that just went off in every direction.
I
looked like a monkey, very unattractive, and Grandmother used to call me
her little Irish [Nick], apparently. DL: Mit? MR: Nick,
like Nicky, Nick. I don't
think she was very fond of the idea of being a grandmother and you know how I told you what her reaction was when she found out that my
mom and dad were expecting. She,
I think, even more didn't particularly care for me after we went on a long plane ride, picture this,
I was a year old so it would have been in 53
and my mother was going to come north and visit her family up in Utica. My mother told me that she had kept me on the bottle until I was a year so
that it would be a source of comfort when we were on the plane. I think when she told me this story another time I had Libby and Libby was
still on the bottle at a year and a half and I remember thinking she kept
me on the bottle until I was a year, but that was the days before people
tried to toilet train kids by age two and that sort of thing. I think it was on the flight home, I think everything was
okay. Grandmother went along with them and it was on an Eastern flight so everybody sort
of knew who grandmother was, this kind of thing, and I think it was on
the flight home that it was the disaster where mother asked the steward if he would get me some
milk. She gave him the bottle and asked if he would please get me some milk. She
said that it took forever and I started to whimper when I saw the bottle
going and finally he brought it back and he heated the milk and she said
no, she didn't
want heated milk, all she wanted was cold milk. So then the bottle went away again and she said I started crying and I started
crying even more. You know how babies
can cry. Finally the bottle came
back and it was cold milk but by that time I was so worked up that my mother
couldn't
get me to drink any and Grandmother was sitting with my brother in the
seat ahead and he had gotten some flu bug or something and he wasn't feeling well at
all. It was something
like an eight-hour flight and I cried practically the whole flight and
I think Grandmother practically just wrote me off like from that point
until maybe when I came down when I was twenty or so. And I always used to send her birthday cards and stuff like
that. I think I was always trying to sort of show her that I wasn't as bad as I had shown when I was a year old or
something. I mean it was just absolute hard. DL: Would
you call her a very proper person? MR: I
think she was perhaps but I think she was concerned about appearances,
about propriety and that's why she didn't
want Grandfather out there. She didn't think that was proper for him to be out there throwing a ball around with
my brother. You know, you' DL: Yes. MR: ..."It
was a perfectly good name before and why are they going to go and change
it to JFK or whatever. "She jumped down my throat for me having an opinion and I
didn't say anything for I don't know how many years after
that. I was like, ah, okay, I'm
going to just be seen and not heard at these meals because its
not worth trying to say anything because remember I told you she referred
to mom and dad as the children.
DL: Was
that how she interacted with them when they were growing up or she...? MR: I'm
not sure. I'm
really not. She was a real tough
lady.
??: Not
real affectionate towards her own children do you think? MR: I
don't
think so. I really don't think so. I mean she was not affectionate
to us. She just was not an affectionate
kind of person. I don't
think she had all that great a life and...You
know, her mother died when she was very young. I don't
know how soon after her father remarried but I don't know how much affection she was shown when she was growing up. DL: We
were struck by a statement in Eddies
honeymoon diary. We have a copy--we
have the original of Eddie's
honeymoon diary at Auburn.
MR: Oh,
you do?
DL: The
1922 honeymoon diary. MR: You
know they both kept diaries. MR: Really. ??: What
happened to hers? DL: What
happened to hers? MR: I
don't know. My mother said that it was
so fun to sit there and read what he wrote in it and what she wrote was
like
WHOA. It's
like night and day sometimes. DL: I
could believe that. Well, the thing
that touched us very much is one of the very first entries if not the first
entry he had just gotten married and he talked about how he would now have
a pal. MR: I
think that's mentioned in the... DL: What
he wanted in marriage was a pal and another thing that comes out and he
doesn't
mention this in his autobiography, she hurt his feelings very much early
in their marriage by continuing to wear the wedding ring that Cliff had
given her. Eddie felt very bad about
that and confided that to his diary.
MR: Now
from what I understand she met Clifford when she was seventeen or something--seventeen
or eighteen, and he saw her when she was singing and then wooed her and
won her or whatever. From what I
understand it was his father said you know you've
got to learn about the auto business or something and they lived in--Grandmother
and Clifford lived in a fifth floor cold water flat or something like that
in Detroit, I think. The memory that
I have that I think my mother told me was that this was sort of--this is
where you will live, that they were told this what you will do and this
is where you will live and they were told that by Dad Durant who was a
very strong personality as well. But Clifford unfortunately
DL: Did
she live in a cabin or...? MR: Mother
told me when I talked to her the other day, she said something about "on
the rim,"
and yet when we went to the Grand Canyon years ago she told me that she
lived at the bottom of the Grand Canyon and that the only person, that
some Indian guide was the only one who knew the way in and the way out
and that if he had died then she and... DL: She
and a friend? MR: Yes,
it was a female companion and that they wouldn't
have been able to get back out and that Grandmother was so tall, you know
those little burrows that people ride on the [Bright Angel Trail], that
she was tall that the burrows went around the switchbacks and her feet practically were touching on the switchbacks or something. ??: Now
old was she at this time? MR: We
think that she divorced Clifford and did all this, say around 1911, 1912,
or something, and she was probably only married to Clifford for maybe seven
years or eight years. DL: I
can get you a copy of the... MR: We're
really not sure how long it was. DL: What
all did Clifford do? MR: I
don't
think he did too much. He drank and
partied and hung out at the track. I mean that's... DL: He
was an automobile racer. MR: Yes. ??: Well,
there was some kind of theory, I don't
know where you read this about why Adelaide had to get the hysterectomy
was that he gave her a venereal disease or something from all his playing around. Do
you know anything about
that? MR: Well,
I'd
heard that she had something like five miscarriages and that the doctor
told her that she had to have a hysterectomy because she wouldn't have the stamina to--she would die if she was to go on and try to have
another baby. That's why she had the hysterectomy. That may be the sanitized version that came through the family, the reality
might be what you said. I have no
idea. DL: As
you say, Bill liked to _____ _____ _____. MR: Oh,
yes, I can hear him in some of those passages ____ ____ _____, but like DL: Bill
told us that Cliff Durant was bisexual. Have
you ever heard that in the family? MR: I
have no idea. DL: He
also indicated that after the divorce Billy Durant continued to like Adelaide
very, very much. MR: You're
talk Dad Durant? DL: Yes. MR: Well,
you see, he married Kathryn who was probably only a couple of years older
than Grandmother. It was his second marriage. Grandmother and Kathryn
were very, very good friends and she is one of the last people who died
in New York when Grandmother just sort of, you know, "This
is it, I've
had it." DL: Kathryn
Durant. MR: Kathryn
Durant. DL: Okay. MR: And
she was part of Grandmothers
canasta bunch and there was somebody named Sheila Driggs and I wonder if
she was... DL: Sheila Driggs. That MR: I
don't
know because when I read your thing and it same something about Lawrence
whatever Driggs and I was thinking, "Wow,
well didn't
Grandmother have a very good friend Sheila Driggs? I'm
pretty sure the name was Sheila Driggs. I
think Dad Durant, how I've always had it referred to, I think he really admired Grandmother and felt
that she had gotten the short end of the stick by being married to Clifford
and that she had put up with more than her share of crap (excuse my French)
and that that's
why he set her up with the General Motors trust fund. I don't
know if it was before or after that that she went on this trip where she
went to northern Africa and went to see the pyramids. DL: This
is Adelaide? MR: Yes. We
have tried to figure out when all this could be in relation, let's
say, to World War I starting and this kind of thing. We think that she was over in North Africa like in 1914 or 1913 or something
like that. But if she wasn't divorced from Clifford then--we thought that the things she did were as
a single woman after she had divorced Clifford. DL: The
story we get from Nancy, Bill Rickenbacker' MR: Oh,
like an escort? DL: Yes,
as an escort. That Eddie was an
escort and that what started out as a platonic relationship eventually
developed into a romance.
MR: You
know, whatever I had heard about Grandmother knowing Grandfather before
they married it was told to me when I was younger that--and I don't
even know if it was supposed to be in California or if it was supposed
to be out--I'm
trying to think of when it would have been--but I thought it was more like
in Detroit or something that supposedly some of the riff-raff from the
track that Clifford had brought home, one of them was Grandfather and that
she had me him then but didn't pay him any attention. I mean that's
what I'd
always been told was that this was just one more of the crowd that was
hanging out at the house and that was that. DL: At
the house in California or in Detroit? MR: I
don't know. If Eddie was racing and he
did meet her when he was one of the rift raft hanging out at the track,
then it would have to be before... DL: Eddie didn't race any more after 1916. MR: That DL: Eddie
went to California after the war because he really wanted to stay in California. He
wanted to settle there and what we heard through Bill, from what Bill told
Nancy, it was when Eddie was in California and before he went to Detroit
to become an automobile manufacturer that Billy Durant more or less asked
him to be a kind of driving coach for Cliff to help him become a better
racing driver because Eddie was no longer racing but Cliff was, and that
he was to be an escort for Adelaide. That is all that I knew about the genesis of their
relationship. It seems that you have a different picture of this. MR: Yes. DL: Your
mother might have a ...
MR: She
might because she did spend time with Grandmother. You
know I mentioned how she brought Grandmother up to Boston to the Leahy Clinic. I guess it was after Grandfather
died Grandmother was very ill for a while. But I don't
think it was that. I think maybe
after she recovered that time but my sister and my mom went down to Florida
(I think they were down there for almost a month or something) and I know
Grandmother was very, I want to say agitated--that's
sort of too strong a term--but she was quite concerned about my sister
being down there all that time. You know, "What
am I going to do with this child?,
my sister was maybe eleven at the time, and How
am I going to entertain her? My mother said you don't
have to worry about Nancy she can just go off and do her own thing and
my mother was down there to sort of help with Grandmother because she wasn't well. So
she did have opportunities
where Grandmother would share things and Mother never pressed her and asked things. But, if during the course
and Grandmother saying something and Mother might have said Oh
well, was that when you did so and so,
or "Is
that how you got this and that?" She never would initiate a conversation. So she did have quite a few times where she was with
Grandmother. I was telling you something earlier about Grandmother was very controlling. I
got my perceptions mixed up but when I was talking to my mom I thought
it was when they had moved up to New Jersey and they had gotten their first
house and Grandmother and Grandfather were concerned they had gotten a
mortgage and had taken on that much debt. My mother said no, no it wasn't
then that they got upset it was when they moved from the smaller house
to the bigger house and was why aren't you happy in your smaller house, why are you moving up and this kind of
thing. Grandmother very pointedly
said she didn't
think that they needed to do that, it was a nice house, why did you leave
that one for this one, and this kind of thing. When we were in Texas, I'd
started to tell you about my hair and it had gone from this wild dark red
hair to the long blond hair. My mother
said she called it my crown and glory. Grandmother felt it was inappropriate for a young child to have long
hair. She told my mother that she should cut my hair and it wasn't a suggestion. ??: It
was an order.
MR: Yes,
and my mother said nobody is going to tell me what to do with my child
and my grandmother let her have it. So
they had an adversary relationship in the beginning but over the years
I think my grandmother developed a fondness and a grudging admiration for
my mother for seeing what kind of woman my mother was and that she had
a brain in her head and that she was good for my dad. So
she had a good bond where as I don't think Grandmother had that with Sandy. I think my mother was smart enough in her dealings with Grandmother to understand
when to accept something and when to say no and when to hold her ground
and when to back off. When she stood
up to her when she was a young bride, she was twenty-four-and-a-half when
I was born, so when Grandmother was trying to tell her what to do she was
only probably twenty-seven or twenty-eight or whatever, but my mother just--gonna
be pushed around just because you are my mother-in-law. But
there were times when they did have to get pushed around because Grandmother,
as I said, would call and say go into the house and do this, get my shoes
and you send it to here, and Grandfather used to call every Sunday morning
and there was an hour time difference. He would go to his office every single Sunday and
he'd promptly call at 8:00 New York time or 7:00 New York time, I don't
know what, but anyway it was still an hour earlier in Texas and he'd call. They
were young and they had
a good group of friends and they'd go out, and they'd
go to parties and stuff like that and they wanted to be able to sleep late
on a Sunday morning and he would wake them up every single Sunday morning. So they finally got smart and they would take the phone off the hook before
they would go to bed at 2:00 Sunday morning. So then Herschel, the house man, would come over from the main house and that
was a good hike, and he'd come over and he'd
knock on the door,"
Mr. David, Mr. David, your father is on the phone and he wants to talk
to you." I mean and he would want to know what was going on at the ranch and he wanted
to know to the penny what was going on. DL: Yes,
that makes sense. MR: You
know, he had to know everything and this was when he wanted to call. He called even though they asked him could you please wait and it is their
one morning David doesn't
have to get up at who knows what hour to go out into the fields and do
all this stuff with the cows and the chickens, you know, oversee other
people doing all these things. For six years or whatever they were under Grandfather and Grandmothers
thumb.
DL: Bill
told Nancy that Cliff Durant met Adelaide when she was singing in a burlesque house. Have
you ever heard anything? MR: I've
always heard that it was sort of something nicer than that but, you know,
more like a cabaret kind of thing, but I don't
know. DL: Finis Farr has a kind of veiled reference in his.... MR: Yes,
he said something, you know, that...But
he has almost got a quote from Bill saying that she started singing in
churches in every county and then she then she was singing such and such
and not singing.
DL: Yes,
and there is an innuendo there but I'm
sure that comes through Bill. Bill
indicated that Cliff Durant met Adelaide by frequenting one of the places
that Cliff Durant would normally frequent. I don't think he meant a bordello necessarily but she had a beautiful voice from
everything that I understand. She
was singing in a theater that was not of the highest caliber, shall we say. I didn't
know whether any thing of that sort had come down. MR: I
just heard that he saw her singing and I never really heard it described
as to where. The person who would
know more if she would be willing to share would be Nedra. DL: Another
thing that I'm trying to remember the name of the individual in Minnesota who, he's
a conservative who writes a journal and who was a good friend of Bill Rickenbacker
and wrote a very long article in Bills
memory after Bill died. In that article
this person says that Eddie's marriage to Adelaide became very severely strained in the 1930s and that
there was a period where Adelaide was even thinking of leaving the marriage. When
I talked to Lawrence Rockefeller, my first interview with Lawrence, I said Tell
me about Adelaide?
and he said " MR: You
know, one of the things when Doug and I went down to Florida after we got
married my grandmother said I want to share a bit of advice with you. Since
she hadn't
been able to come to the wedding, she said, "Take
my advice, don't
ever go to bed angry." She said, "It
was something that I should have followed and I didn't,"
something along those lines. Just,
you know, that if you go to bed angry then it is going to eat at you and
when you wake up in the morning it is going to still be with you, always
make up before you go to bed. I think
that because they were two such strong personalities that neither one of
them was willing to say back down and say I was wrong in that or to take
the others
needs above theirs kind of thing. I just think they probably were not a very good match for each other in terms
of in relationships because they were such strong personalities. I think there was definitely very warm feelings for each other. DL: Bill
said that two, that they cared very much for one another but they fought incessantly. I
asked Bill, I said MR: He
told me that. DL: He
shot back immediately, Yes,
my mother. He was terrified of her. I
tried to ask him what did he mean by that. He would not elaborate. He just said
he was terrified of her. I said "Why?" He
said she had his number. DL: What
does that mean? MR: She
probably just really knew how to get to him. I don't know, make life miserable, I'm
not sure. You know, when you think
of the life that he lead after he came back from the war the impression
I got from things that I had read or heard sounds like he was made into
the hero all the more. The press really had a field day. Its very hard to not--it's
probably hard to be a human when you have been made to be a hero on that
scale. DL: Yes. MR: So
you probably always have to try to look at your actions and everything
as well, "Would
a hero do this?",
that kind of thing. As you were saying
earlier, that--I think it prevented him from being as much of the person
that he wanted to be. Maybe he always
thought well, is this appropriate for my stature in life. I don't know. Maybe she had some dirt on
him. Who knows. DL: Well,
one dealer who was showing me some books that had belonged to Eddie, some
of which I bought for our collection at Auburn. I
bought a four volume run of the great silver fleet which I MR: Not
Margaret Burke White? DL: Yes,
Margaret Burke White. He says he
probably picked up--Eddie had an affair with Margaret Burke White. And I said "Where
did you get that from?" He wouldn't elaborate.
MR: Who
said that? Bill? DL: No,
no, no. Not Bill. MR: The steeler?
DL: The steeler. And there is a picture of
Eddie and Margaret Burke White at the Indianapolis 500 in the late 1930s
dressed to the nines and I know that Margaret Burke White had a thing for
aviators. I mean her autobiography
indicates that and I know that she did contract work for Eastern Airlines
in the late 1930s as an industrial photographer. That
is the only place I have ever picked up any indication that Eddie had any
kind of involvement with another woman and I don't
know that it is true. My on tendency
would be to think that Eddie has a very strong sense of propriety in what
a heroic figure should do and how he should comport himself in that way. I did ask Bob [Serling] "Did
you ever hear of anything about Eddie Rickenbacker having improper relationships
with women?" He said "I've
heard a lot of things about Eddie Rickenbacker but I never heard anything
like that." I suppose it is an indelicate question but what about Margaret Burke White? MR: I
don't
know anything about Margaret Burke White. I think Grandmother suspected at one time that he was having an affair with
somebody but I don't
think it was her. DL: Would
that have been in the '30s? MR: It
might have fit. I'm
not sure. DL: I
just have the feeling that there are a lot of clues that not all was well
with Eddie and Adelaide in the late 1930s, and yet, I don't
have the kind of hard evidence that would, you know, enable me to state
that something was going on but there, again, I do have the feeling this
was a marriage between two people who had different objectives in life
and that rather early on Adelaide liked fine china, she loved to dress
well, she loved to play bridge and canasta, and Eddie did not have those
kinds of... That is not exactly the kind of thing that Eddie was interested
in and I have a feeling that he spent most of his time at work and she
spent most of her time with her circle at home. MR: You
know, that probably was true. You know, when he said that he was, maybe he found a pal, he may have thought
that he had found the kind of--I'm
not saying that he wanted to do this but the kind of woman that would maybe
go to an Adirondack camp kind of thing. You know, that kind of relationship, somebody who would support him when he
went fishing or something like that. They did have different pursuits. Its true, she did like really nice
things. I can show you some of her really nice things before you leave because I've
got them.
DL: I
get the picture from the honeymoon diary that she was always getting fitted
up for new clothing, which she could never have afforded to buy her. MR: Something
about Hope, I don't know if it is in Farr's
book, but there is about her losing things and it just drove him bananas
the way she kept losing things and it didn't seem to phase her in the least that she had lost a ring or ...
DL: Yes.
MR: ...it
was very expensive and...
DL: Here
is a man who had grown up in poverty. MR: Yet
she had grown up in poverty too. DL: Yes,
but she had known what it was to be rich, I mean through her marriage with
Cliff. MR: Yes,
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